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Rakhi Kurup's avatar

At least you are thinking about it, that require a certain level of maturity. I was outraged about lot of things in the world for the longest of times. It’s good to know what we can and cannot do and while there are lot of inspirational figures around us, we cannot be them, let’s be true to ourselves. Meditation has helped me calm down a bit and focus on things I can do rather than focusing on all that is going wrong with the world.

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Suryansh Tomar's avatar

Even those inspirational figures spent a big chunk of their lives in practicing self mastery and reaching to a position of power and influence.

No change in the world occur without changing ourselves.

I have tried meditation a few times, but writing has been more helpful to me.

Next time I try meditation, I'll ask you for advice:)

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RG's avatar

In spite of your multiple "confessions" to some form of lack of courage (cowardice is too harsh a word and anyway it is not applicable), it is a brave sharing of your dilemma. IMHO, there is real sensitivity in your questioning your choices as opposed to the trigger-happy forwarding that is so common. One of the mantras I try to practice (and teach in my sessions on questionology) is to "Stay with the questions longer." It is inspired from a quote by Einstein. I recommend it to you. Look forward to reading more from you.

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Suryansh Tomar's avatar

Thanks for your kind words RG!

I am learning about Questiology for the first time and it is comforting to know that there is a branch of study about the dilemma that I have written about. I will definitely read more about it.

Thanks for the recommendation !

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Alwira Sheikh's avatar

I’ve often found myself stuck between two worlds. The desire to be a polymath, endlessly curious and questioning, and the wish to live a simple, comfortable, happy life. At times, these felt like opposites.

I’ve noticed that people around me, who live by the “ignorance is bliss” principle, often seem much happier in their own bubbles.

But I’ve come to realise that it really depends on what suits each person’s inner rhythm.

Writing about these things isn’t just about expressing opinions, it’s a way to understand how deeply you care about having them in the first place.

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Suryansh Tomar's avatar

As you said, it's about each person's inner rhythm.

I think, overthinking is one downside that comes with people like us, those who do not want to settle at a certain intellectual level, and the whole point of writing this article was my attempt to eliminate a few things, things beyond my control.

I too wish to be a polymath, although I do not know how, it is long journey and I guess there will be a hefty cost that I will have to pay.

All the best for your journey!

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Abhijeet Mukherjee's avatar

This is relatable. I’ve written about this at length in my book! :)

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Suryansh Tomar's avatar

Pre-ordering right now!

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Abhijeet Mukherjee's avatar

Thanks :)

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